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People with firtile and creative mind know a good idea may sprout any time. Mahesh Bhupathi. Not only in the world of science. They have achieved greater heights which their seniors. Ideas verify rule the world. If it does.
Ramakrishna Paramhansa and Vivekananda acquired knowledge and ideas through long hours of meditation and due to this people not only from entire India. Sania Mirza. Before a game is actually played in the field.
Write down every ideas come to your mind: Hargobind Khorana was credited with deciphering genetic code. He does not let it slip by. Sachin Tendulkar. Because of their ideas and expertise. Every great and grand accomplishment. Possibility thinker looks at every idea to see if it has possibilities.
Carry a note book or some small card with you all the time. Reversed religious texts. Only a correct strategy. Very few ideas become successful as they are highly perishable. This is all because of his ideas. The ideas in the field of computer has today revolutionized the entire world. If you were not on guard. But they have got to be harnessed and put to work to have value. Ideas are the fruits of our thinking.
This is primarily due to greater interest. It is the idea and knowledge of Microsoft supremo Bill Gates. Viswanathan Anand.
It was the spiritual ideas of Gautam Buddha which led Ashoka to abjure the path of bloodshed and adopt non-violence or Ahimsa. Never reject a possibility because your mind is already made up: People who never change their mind either perfect of stubborn. The great idea today are yet impossible.. Then when the time is ripe put it to work for yourself. But so long as the idea has any promise. I am not perfect neither you are. As you go over your ideas some may for very good reason have no value at all.
That is the progress. Never reject an idea because it is not your way of doing things: Learn to accommodate. Readjust your budget. Read anything you can find which is in any way is akin to your ideas. Never reject a possibility because you would not get the credit: A show box will do. Never reject an idea because it is impossible: Almost every great idea is impossible when it is first born. Accommodate your life style. Decisions must never be based on ego needs. Never reject an idea because it is sure to succeed.
Plan to adjust. The important issue is whether the idea is good one. But build a file and then examine your store house of ideas regularly. Success is never certain and failure is never final You never reject an idea because there is some risks involved: You isolate the risk. File these ideas in an active file. Never reject a possibility because you see something wrong with it 2.
Learn to be equilibristic. If you do. Compromise your taste. Cultivate and Fertilise your ideas: Now make you ideas grow. Possibility thinker take great ideas and turn the impossibilities into possibilities. Prepare to compromise. Tie the ideas to related ideas. It is dumb. One thing world needs more than anything else today is possibility thinking. Investigate form all angles. Would it help people who are hurting?
Would it be a great thing for our country and our world? If so develop a way to achieve what today is impossible. Maintain a balance between the tension of an opportunity that demand exploitation and the limitation of resources available at the moment.. Never reject an idea because it will create conflict: It is more important to succeed than it is to snobbishly adhere to your private taste. Think about it. Get rid of these. Never reject an idea because it might fail: There is risk in everything.
The file can be an elaborate cabinet or it can be a desk drawer. That is materialistic. Never reject an idea because it is illegal: You might be able to get the law changed. That is vanity. I am not trying for top ladder. A supersuccessful person has very few resources..
If you were to look at an EEG of your brain while you are brushing your teeth. The same thing happens with your habitual thoughts. So changing habits requires rewiring the brain. Good habits help us get through our daily lives.
Most people think of behaviors when they think of habits. These are the habits that are hard to change. Sometimes our habitual thinking can keep habitual behaviors going and make them hard to change. Brushing our teeth every morning good habit or smoking bad habit.
Only winners will survive to give food to the hungry. These are all good habits that protect us when we drive. Instead of Changing a Habit. Every time you brush your teeth. When you first started. All of our habits began as thoughts. Over time. In general. Instituting a new habit can take as little as 30 days of consistent repetitive behavior.
Of course. Only successful people help people who are failing. Stopping at red lights. Start Small: In truth a habit is a complicated set of thoughts. We tend to think of habits as things we do and we categorize them as good or bad.
An established disposition of the mind or character. It can help if you think in terms of starting a new pathway. A habit is an activity that is acquired. Habits Daily habits might not be too hard. Create a New One. When we drive. Speeding through red lights and school zones and driving without a seat belt are examples of bad habits.
Habits can be good or bad. Taking small. Think of one new habit you want to instill and begin there. Start small. Most people want to get to the end result so quickly that they skip steps or place unrealistic expectations on themselves. By the time you recovered.
By keeping it simple. For example. If you analyse. Spend this time before you do any action and you will find yourself with a solid foundation from which to shift your actual behavior. Think in terms of creating a new habit instead of breaking an old one.
Sound familiar? Skipping steps is recipe for failure because changes that last are built upon a solid foundation. Start at the level of your thought. We are all born to lead successful lives but our conditioning leads us to failure.
This is not true. If you want to start a habit of healthy eating. There is no urgency when it comes to your new habit. We are born to win but are conditioned to lose. Or he is unlucky. We often hear statements like. Think of the habit as something that will support your highest goals for yourself. How to get started on your new habit? It takes consistent new action over a period of time to reinforce the new way of thinking. You are not in a race. Inspiration is what gets a person started.
Then to be Understood: Sharpen the Saw: Principles of Balanced Self-Renewal The chapters are dedicated to each of the habits.
Habits generate other habits. Be Proactive: Begin with the End in Mind: Put First Things First: Seek First to Understand. Honesty and dishonesty to self and others both become habits. Sustain what needs to be done and abstain from what is detrimental until this becomes habitual. When we practice negative traits such as cowardice or dishonesty in small events. Success lies in the philosophy of sustain and abstain. It takes time. But the one to whom good work becomes habit is deserving.
Human beings are more emotional than rational. Honesty and integrity are both the result of our belief system and practice. When we permit ourselves to tell a lie once. It has to grow from within. Many people do good work with promotions in mind. Traits are not coincidences. Whereas a person who is dishonest most of the time gets caught the first time he tells the truth. Only perfect practice makes perfect.
A person who is honest most of the time gets caught the first time he tells a lie. Professionals make things look easy because they have mastered the fundamentals of whatever they do.
Practice makes permanent whatever you do repeatedly. Some people keep practicing their mistakes and they become perfect in them. Anything we practice long enough becomes ingrained into our system and becomes a habit. Cultivating a habit is like ploughing the field. In the face of adversity our behavior can only be the one we have practiced.
Thoroughly listening to another person's concerns instead of reading out your own autobiography is purported to increase the chance of establishing a working communication.
The 8th Habit: From Effectiveness to Greatness. Habit 7. Tapping into the higher reaches of human motivation requires a new mindset. Covey talks about stimulus and response.
Habit 5. Principles of Personal Choice: Covey emphasizes the original sense of the term "proactive" as coined by Victor Frank. Apply collaborative decision making. In today's challenging and complex world. Initiative and taking action will then follow. You may want to give a little more attention to how you dress at work because what you wear may be substantially influencing your career path.
Build on divergent strengths. He goes on to say how this attribute enables him: It gives him the power not to be affected by his circumstances. Apply effective problem solving. Principles of Balanced Self-Renewal: Focuses on balanced self-renewal: Regain what Covey calls "production capability" by engaging in carefully selected recreational activities.
He sees visualization as an important tool to develop this. Embrace and leverage innovation. Successful delegation. Habit 6. Principles of Personal Vision: This chapter is about setting long-term goals based on "true north" principles. They are neither fulfilled nor excited. Covey also emphasizes the need to sharpen the mind.
Habit 1. Research is showing. Value differences. Covey describes a framework for prioritizing work that is aimed at long-term goals. Principles of Mutual Benefit: An attitude whereby mutually beneficial solutions are sought that satisfy the needs of oneself as well as others. Principles of Mutual Understanding: Covey warns that giving out advice before having empathetically understood a person and their situation will likely result in that advice being rejected.
Covey also argues that man is different from other animals in that he has self-consciousness. To thrive.
It is put forth that when synergy is pursued as a habit. You can either be proactive or reactive when it comes to how you respond to certain things. Habit 4. Principles of Creative Cooperation: A way of working in teams. Habit 3. He has the ability to detach himself and observe his own self. When you are reactive. Covey's new book. Habit 2. Although nothing takes the place of talent.
Leverage creative collaboration. He also deals with organizational mission statements. Delegation is presented as an important part of time management. Covey recommends formulating a "Personal Mission Statement" to document one's perception of one's own vision in life. Being proactive means taking responsibility for every aspect of your life.
Between stimulus and response. Preferably wear leather strapped watches. If you wear a metal strapped watch. Bright and zany nails are great for parties but not for work. It is understood that medium length nails have to be clean and if painted. The feet should be kept clean and crack free. A hairstyle to suit your face and personality must be chosen. If you are a genius. Hair must be shampooed at least once in 2 days and conditioned once a week. Nails should be clipped and filed short for men and be of medium length for women.
They should preferably be dark though you may wear beige and with a dark colored shirt. Daily showers are a necessity. The toenails should go through a routine of cleaning. Teeth need brushing and flossing every morning and night.
Toes and feet too should be taken care of. Ladies can paint them in mild colours for work and try and have a pedicure once every fortnight. It simply means dressing in a way that projects an image of the sophisticated.
If you are not. When you are fresh and well groomed. To play it safe choose a traditional silk tie. Choose a color that coordinates with your trousers usually black. As a thumb rule. Make sure not to eat any pungent food during office hours. As thumb rule. Wear only formal belts with a sleek buckle.
Shoes must be polished everyday Do not wear shoes that look casual. As a rule. No loud colours or patterns. Preferably choose small prints or self colors. Avoid chunky bracelets or too many bangles. You may wear either a bracelet or a bangle. Hairstyles should be clean and neat. Sideburns should not extend below the earlobe or onto the cheek.
Even then. Poor Self-Esteem vs. Men are expected to be clean shaven. Apart from your working bag if you are carrying an additional bag. In contrast.
Most people's feelings and thoughts about themselves fluctuate somewhat based on their daily experiences. Healthy Self-Esteem People with poor self-esteem often rely on how they are doing in the present to determine how they feel about themselves.
You may wear a tunic with a pair of formal trousers. Wear stubs or small rings. Do not wear colorful sandals. Be sure your shoes are polished and that your heels are intact. The grade you get on an exam. And tight fitting clothes Avoid plunging necklines.
Avoid both. Keep them simple and not chunky. Avoid white colored sandals as they get dirty easily. Earrings and other body piercing are unacceptable.
High self esteem is a good opinion of yourself and low self esteem is a bad opinion of yourself. You may wear a pair with smaller heels or a flat pair. They need positive external experiences to counteract the negative feelings and thoughts that constantly plague them.
You may wear thin chains with small lockets. Your self-esteem. For people with good basic self-esteem. Avoid heels and sandals with heels. If worn. Experiences during our childhood play a particularly large role in the shaping of our basic self-esteem. The Rebel: When we were growing up. For people with healthy self-esteem the messages of the inner voice are positive and reassuring.
Although most people do not "hear" this voice in the same way they would a spoken one. For people with low self-esteem.
Healthy self-esteem is based on our ability to assess ourselves accurately know ourselves and still be able to accept and to value ourselves unconditionally. Here are three common faces that low self-esteem may wear: The Impostor: The Loser: Our self-esteem develops and evolves throughout our lives as we build an image of ourselves through our experiences with different people and activities.
This means being able to realistically acknowledge our strengths and limitations which is part of being human and at the same time accepting ourselves as worthy and worthwhile without conditions or reservations. Self-esteem is largely developed during childhood. Lives with the constant fear that she or he will be "found out. Uses self-pity or indifference as a shield against fear of taking responsibility for changing his or her life.
Lives with constant anger about not feeling "good enough. Looks constantly to others for guidance, which can lead to such problems as lacking assertiveness skills, under-achievement, and excessive reliance on others in relationships.
Worst of all, these negative consequences themselves reinforce the negative self-image and can take a person into a downward spiral of lower and lower self-esteem and increasingly non-productive or even actively self-destructive behavior. Before you can begin to improve your self-esteem you must first believe that you can change it. Change doesn't necessarily happen quickly or easily, but it can happen.
You are not powerless! Once you have accepted, or are at least willing to entertain the possibility that you are not powerless, there are three steps you can take to begin to change your self-esteem:. Get Help from Others. The Inner Critic's Voice: Your Rebuttals: Is Unfairly Harsh: Maybe it my presentation, but it was nowhere near as wasn't perfect, but I worked hard on that presentation good as it should have been.
I can't believe and did a good job. I'm proud of myself. This was a no one noticed all the places I messed up.
I don't understand anything in this done O. There are some things class. I'm such an idiot. Who am I fooling? I here that I don't understand as well as I thought I did, shouldn't be taking this class. I'm stupid and but I can do the material-I've done fine in other classes I don't belong in college.
That hurt. Well, she doesn't date! I'm so embarrassed and humiliated.
No want to go out with me. That doesn't mean no one one likes or cares about me. I'll never find a does. I know I'm an attractive and nice person. I'll find girlfriend. I'll always be alone. Rebutting your critical inner voice is an important first step, but it is not enough.
Since our self-esteem is in part due to how others have treated us in the past, the second step to more healthy self-esteem is to begin to treat yourself as a worthwhile person. Start to challenge past negative experiences or messages by nurturing and caring for yourself in ways that show that you are valuable, competent, deserving and lovable.
There are several components to self- nurturing:. Get enough sleep, eat in a healthy fashion, get regular exercise, practice good hygiene, and so forth. You could go to a movie, take a nap, get a massage, plant a garden, download a pet, learn to meditate-whatever you enjoy.
You could take the night off to celebrate good grades, spend time with a friend, or compliment yourself for making that hard phone call. One way is to make a list of things you like about yourself. Elsewhere anonymous founders of schools of self-development appear endemic — note the traditions of the Indian sub-continent in this regard.
South Asian traditions[ edit ] You can help by adding to it. July Some ancient Indians aspired to "beingness, wisdom and happiness". His ideas continue to influence family values , education and management in China and East Asia.
In his Great Learning Confucius wrote: The ancients who wished to illustrate illustrious virtue throughout the kingdom first ordered well their own states. Wishing to order well their states, they first regulated their families. Wishing to regulate their families, they first cultivated their persons. Technological Development- Internet and Community Websites The students from rural area started to get familiar with the enchanting world of internet they are browsing community websites like www.
I found that even from some of my friends in rural area, they are sending me friend requests on through facebook they are sharing their views, moments their current status; hence I believe the information technology brought the whole world closure very closure!!! On the tip of finger. The web world provides excellent websites for personality development. Students themselves can develop by using online tests. They can present themselves through blogs; blog can promote students to develop creativity, express themselves effectively, presentation, and free exposure 3.
Technological Development- 3G Technology The 3G technology stands as a milestone in technological revolution by its fast communication technology, easy accessibility, time, and price. It made available the applications like video conferencing, fast internet speed, high downloading speed and quality video transfer etc.
The many educational institutes are using video conferencing to deliver special lectures by experts throughout the world. The common people can also use this 3G technology to communicate through video conferencing.
This will definitely nurture the efforts towards the enhanced personality development. Technological Development- Television Television programs are easily available for even rural and backward areas; the students are getting aware of current affairs through news channels.